Who drives your life-car? Society? You? God?
Without a settled job and student status, twenties can be the most absurd period of your life. (Me) I graduated last year, my name is getting longer with a quite bias title. I make money from here and there, no settled job, but not quite unemployed. I am twenties. (Please, not the late twenties, it is still early.) Yet, this early-twenties period starts to make me think, I mean "more seriously" think about what will I become in the future. This is Indonesia, this is Java, this is a suburb, the place where I live. My neighborhood consists of highly traditional people with strong hold on tradition and cliches, conservatives. Not that I hate it. Globalization somehow fades the native values and traditions, which I think, some are still necessary and worthy. What I don't particularly agree is that, sometimes people judge the other people merely based on the standards and values they have or they used to. Take an example, I am a (beautiful) girl of twe...